超完美男人

他选择了她，是因为,在他看来生活有了她会更美好。

兰花很美，一般的女子看到花，即使不是明显的欢喜，起码不至于厌恶。

兰花能征服所有的女人？

也许能征服她的，不是那朵兰花，而是一个微妙的开始，爱情美好地萌芽。

在他看来生活有了她，会更美好。

生活与爱始终需要自己尝试、进取、取舍、磨合，而不是把一个人的出现当做契机。

当我足够好，才会遇见你。

兰花能征服所有的女人。

吐气如兰,气质似竹,心静如水,才情象海。

可是，新鲜感只会保持一天，在那之后，他和她只是普通人。

也许这部片子的主题有些俗套，但仍然不妨碍我对它的好评，因为它击中了我心里最软的地方。

正像片中所说，everyone is scared, 片中的母亲，还有女儿，即使努力地生活也无法掩盖她们的惶恐，问题一旦出现，逃离是她们最好的解决办法。

剧情有那么一点点脱离实际，但是却恰到好处的提点了观众，真的逃得开吗？

我也一直在问自己这样的问题。

An entirely new life does not exist. there is always a shadow of the past you, and the same problem will come to you again. Everyone is scared, but there is no reason to run away. Maybe the perfect man was not real, but the perfect you is.看到这的时候，我恍然大悟。

如果自己不改变，那么问题永远都不会消失。

生活的核心不是遇见多么好的人，而是成为最好的自己。

Stay here, face it, and change it. That is everyone's adventure.We don't need an army to protect ourselves, sometimes we just don't let people close enough to hurt ourselves.Just let people in. I said to myself.

The movie centers around a single-parent family whose members try to seek love in the relatively alienated society. All through the film does one sense the “painful pleasure”, the same way as Hemingway’s heroes share “despairing courage”. It’s painful, because single-parent families do suffer a lot, especially the lack of love and fun of a traditional nuclear family. To go back to the film, the children, be they young or old, have to adapt themselves to new environment every time they move around. The children are innocent, but they seem to be reconciled to reality, whether they don’t want to lose friends, or have to repeatedly outperform themselves in order to be recognized. Even the mother in the film suffers tremendously. Her unhappiness and depression cast a shadow on other family members in turn. On the other hand, we can still get pleasure from watching this movie, for it does have a happy ending. The happy ending comes from the fact that all family members don’t los e faith, no matter how indifferent the world is towards them, and the “perfect man” isn’t un unreal thing. The shining point in the film is its conceptions. E-mail, one of the means for communication in the modern world which has been condemned since its appearance, serves as a thread for the film and shows its positive aspects for interpersonal relationship. In the movie, for instance, the Father-and -Mother relationship improves thanks to the e-mail. What else can be seen is men’s inability and impotency to deal with each other, which accords with the characteristics of post-modernism or modernism. The most interesting or rather touching plot in the film is when the truth comes out, mother forgives father as expected, but mother follows suits by pretending to be somebody else behind helping her daughter find the perfect man, which is unexpected. The title of the film has many interpretations. Firstly, on the surface, the perfect man is the one found by daughter to be exactly the man for mother. Because of his same interest with mother and his “magic power” to understand mother, he is referred to as the perfect man. Secondly, the daughter, who understands mother’s need and agony, turns out to be the perfect man. In this sense, the perfect man never exists but is made up by the “perfect” daughter. Thirdly, regardless of daughter’s efforts and all chance encounters, the perfect man in reality is the one who is around us but hasn’t been noticed by us. This notion is both encouraging and despairing, for we can be sure that there is a right man or woman for us, but it seems to be difficult to recognize him or her. From the movie, the playwriter’s attitudes towards love is traceable as well. The contrasts between the perfect man and the colleague (baker) serve as a good example. Like knows alike. The perfect man likes doing word puzzles and watching the moon, as mother does, and he picks the right music and flowers which favor mother very much. On the contrary, despite great love for mother, the colleague doesn’t know or will never know mother’s cup of tea. In the end, the playwriter makes mother choose the perfect man over the colleague, from which we can see the perfect man in the mind of the playwriter is the one who can read one’s heart. There are also a few minor flaws in the film. For example, the chance encounter between the daughter and the perfect man is a really made-up plot; without her classmate, they wouldn’t have met each other. Besides, such minor characters as the classmate is really minor, who isn’t fully portrayed as a human being. What’s more, the ending is too perfect to believe, with the two pairs coming together. All in all, it’s a good film. It’s a film giving account of our life in the solitary society and offering a way out to a certain degree.

想看《The Perfect Man》，完全是因为Chris Noth——Mr Big，他演完美男人真是太适合了！

看完以后，感觉也不错，挺温馨的。

相对于这部电影的内容来说，我更喜欢它的格调。

中国人，总是太紧张。

有时候就像做很多事一样，看电影看的是心情。

故事情节暂且不说，但从故事人物个性的安排上，我很喜欢里面所以人物。

无所顾忌的关注着自己的所思所想，没有种种自身的约束。

喜笑怒骂很剧场化，很美国式。

美国式的感染力，幽默又不失大气。

接受可以接受的。

拒绝本不属于的。

有时候是一种生活方式。

First of all, i would like to see Chris Noth is such a charming man. I can not remember foreigners' names and faces clearly, but when i saw his in SEXY AND THE CITY, i was crazy about him, it just like i was crazy about Richard in Pretty Woman. In my mind, mature men are most charming and tender.Then, this film is not a romantic film like the information what you get from the name. It more like a film between family members. A single mother who want men and to be loved and a girl who live in single family and have some negative influences from her family try to help each other find the true love. However, the first thing for them is to stay in a place. Maybe the way which the girl used is cheat or cruel, but she just want to find a perfect man for her mother and let her happy. At least, everything have a perfect ending. I love the sentence in this film, love is friendship on fire.

年轻,一切都显得不重要,为了妈妈,撒谎也是好的,站在妈妈或是孩子的角度想一下,一切都变的轻松,无关紧要了.向所有的,坚强的单身妈妈致敬.

令我觉得震惊的是这位母亲,她可以为了自己的小孩子而放弃理想,却不能体谅一直被迫搬迁的女儿的无奈和悲伤?女儿可以为了让母亲改变,编造了谎言,可是在她发现真的有一个很不错的男人的时候,鼓起勇气为母亲争取幸福.相对来说,我觉得母亲要更自私一些.可能也是我现在只是作为一个女儿的立场存活着.我们总是把母亲的爱想象的很伟大,然后把这种伟大加诸在每一个母亲的身上,使这种品格成为评价母亲的标准.但是,是否作为一个母亲,就一定要有奉献一切的精神?如果我们这样界定的话,那么我们是否把一种超常的牺牲,当作了一种理所当然的付出呢?我们要求母亲的,与要求别人的,为什么会有那么大的差距呢?

推荐!尤其是那些单身的妈妈或者是单亲家庭的子女们,有空看看吧,看完大家就都互相理解了.其他的不说了,也说不出来什么.总之,亲情总是那么让人感动!

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